and thus with a heart breaking choice since ben the bachelor was in love with both jo jo and lauren. in the end his heart told him to go with Lauren and jo jo got sent packing though all is not lost for her for she is now the next bachelorette . as for lauren not only did ben wind up for a bachelor first call her father to ask permission to propose but did propose with her saying she does not want a long engagement which means coming soon another bachelor wedding special. as the choice at last was made who ben picked on the bachelor .